Things Japanese People Never Explain-Ichigo Ichie （一期一会）
Ichigo Ichie – Treasuring the Moment
I came across the Japanese phrase “一期一会 (ichigo ichie)” in US, which literally means “one time, one meeting.” Being a Japanese, I never thought that this word becomes popular globally.
I don’t think Japanese people usually don’t explain important word like this. But I wanted to take a moment to explain the deeper meaning which is really beautiful.
every encounter is unique, and you should treasure it because it will never happen the same way again.
By the way, the movie Forrest Gump which is one my favorite movie’s Japanese title was Ichigo Ichie.
Forrest Gump-the way Forrest lived is really about Ichigo Ichie!
Everyday Moments
It’s not all about big moments. Even small things in daily life can be ichigo ichie. That smile from a stranger on the bus, a quick bow from a coworker, or a short chat with someone at a Starbucks– these are all moments you won’t get back exactly the same way. Thinking about it like this makes me notice the little things more when I lived in Japan. Felt like people’s connection was little drier in the public situations than the US. But those are very important.
Travel and Experiences
When traveling, ichigo ichie feels even stronger. Meeting a shop owner in a tiny café in Kyoto, spotting a family laughing by the river in Portland, or seeing a sunset that will never happen in exactly the same way – these are moments to remember and cherish. Even the worst pizza I had during the trip is great memory. Often times, the bad food memory is something you never forget.
Relationships
Even with friends, family, or coworkers, every interaction is unique. You might see someone every day, but both of you are different today than yesterday. That makes each conversation, each shared moment, something special. In Japan, there has been even the “work life balance” phrase in Japan. They start to value the importance of family over work, which is a good thing in Japan!
How to Practice Ichigo Ichie
Really listen when someone is talking and caring. One small meeting can go far sometime.
Notice and appreciate small things. Sometimes writing a diary is great. Or even writing the plan on your calendar.
Be present and enjoy the moment. Make sure to reflect and appreciate the day.
As for myself, I take a bath every night, thinking about what happened today!! I also try to do what I want to do right away!!
By keeping these little habits, everyday life starts to feel more meaningful and special.